Thursday, October 13, 2022

BLESSING OR MISFORTUNE

 

                        Blessing or misfortune

Once there lived a wise old man in a village. Although he was poor, the king was jealous of him because he owned a beautiful white horse. He was offered extravagant amounts of money for the horse, but the man always refused saying, “This is not just a horse to me but a person and a friend. Could you sell your friend? No, absolutely not.”

One morning he woke up and found his horse gone. As the news spread, the whole village gathered at his house.

“You old, foolish man! It was just a matter of time before your horse was stolen. You could have been rich had you sold it. What a misfortune!”

“We’ll see,” replied the old man “It’s true that the horse is not in the stable but how do you know whether it’s a misfortune or not?”

The villagers laughed at him and said, “Don’t try to fool us, you silly man!”

A few days later, the horse returned and with it came several wild horses. Again the villagers came to the man’s house.

“Old man, you are right. We are sorry for what we said. Now you have more beautiful horses. You can train them and sell them to earn money. What a blessing!”

The man replied, “We’ll see, who knows whether it is a blessing or not?”

This time people kept silent.

A couple of days later, the man’s only son fell off one of the wild horses while trying to ride and broke his leg. Upon hearing this, the villagers gathered again and told the old man, “You were right. Having more horses isn’t a blessing. Now your only son is injured. What a misfortune!”

Again the old man replied, “We’ll see.”

One month later, war broke out and all young people of the village were forced to join the military.

The villagers all gathered and cried, “Our sons are gone forever. Your son’s injury indeed turned out to be a blessing.”

The old man replied, “Whether it is a blessing or a misfortune, nobody knows. Only God knows.”

 

Life reveals itself to us in fragments. Sometimes when something happens, it’s better not to jump to conclusions but to let it be and wait.

A seeming misfortune may be a blessing in disguise and vice versa. There’s always a higher plan unfolding.



Wednesday, October 12, 2022

SHAKEN INTO REALISATION

 SHAKEN INTO REALISATION


Two friends named Max and Tim met after a long time.

“I have a huge house with a pool,” Max boasted while drinking his tea.

“I have 30 cars and a garden in front of my house,” Tim said.

Soon they started fighting over who was richer.

Suddenly, the ground started shaking, and they realised it was an earthquake.

Tim quickly hid under the table and pulled Max down with him.

Max took his handkerchief and wrapped Tim’s bleeding hand that he hurt while pulling him down.

The bamboos and bricks the hotel was made of started falling down.

But Max and Tim were safe.

They realised that none of their wealth helped them.

Friendship and kindness did.



Saturday, October 8, 2022

HEART OF GOLD

                                                                      Heart of gold                        

                                                             


This is a true story.

I heard it on the radio during one of my visits to the US.

It happened in one of the biggest cities of the world, New York.

It was winter. 

One evening a worried woman stood shivering by the road, wearing an old coat. 

With her was a little girl, thin, sick- looking with a shaven head.

She was wearing an oversize dress which somebody had probably given to her out of mercy.

It was apparent that they were homeless and poor.

The child had a cardboard placard in her hand which said, I am suffering from cancer. Please help me.

The mother was carrying a begging bowl.

Whenever  the traffic lights  turned  red they would  approach  people,  stopping  them on the  road  and asking for help.

America is a rich country, but if you are sick and don’t have insurance, then you are lost.

Nobody can support you. People give small amounts of money when they see such pleas for help.

This kind of a scene is not uncommon in India.

We see lots of beggars with small infants in one hand and a begging bowl in another.

But in America it is not so common.

People felt bad for this unfortunate mother and child.

One day a policeman was passing by and saw them. 

He asked them a few questions  and noticed  that the child indeed  looked very  sick  with her  swollen  eyes and shaven  head.

He wanted to help, so he opened his purse.

He saw a bundle of notes which he had just drawn from the bank. He had received a good bonus for the excellent work he had done.

He thought, I have a warm home, a caring wife and a loving son. God has been very kind to me. But these unfortunate people don’t have any one of these things. It is not their mistake  that God has not been  kind  to them, he remembered  the many things  he had  promised his wife  and son he  would buy when  he got his  bonus.

For a while he was in two minds. Then he decided and gave all the cash which he had drawn from the bank to the women and said, “Please take good care of the child.”

When he reached home his son met him at the doorstep as usual and hugged him.

The house was warm and nice.

He sat in front of his wife, and looking at the snow falling outside, he narrated the whole incident.

After listening to him for a while his wife was silent, then she smiled. But the son was angry. He said, “Dad, how are you sure  that  they have not  cheated you  and even though you  wanted  to give  some money you  could have given  some portion . Why did you give everything?” 

The policeman laughed at his son and said, “Son, you do not know what poverty is. I come across such unfortunate people in my work.”

The days passed and everybody forgot about it.

One day a news item in the paper caught the son’s attention “mother and child caught cheating”. 

With great interest he read, a greedy mother used her healthy child to pose as a cancer patient.

She shaved the child’s head, starved her and dressed her shabbily so that anybody would feel the child was suffering from cancer.

Using this tactic she duped many people.

The mother has been arrested.

The son realized who these people were and was very upset.

When his father came home, he told him as soon as he entered the house, “Dad, you were cheated by that lady and her child who you thought was a cancer patient. The child is healthy and you gave away your entire bonus to that child.”

 His father did not reply.

He sat down, and looked out of the window.

There were children playing outside.

Winter was over and summer was setting in. 

In a calm voice, “He said, son, I am very happy. The child is healthy.” The boy was surprised. 

He thought  being a policeman,  his father would pick  up the phone  and talk to the police station  or he would be  depressed  that he had been  cheated  and given away  so much of  money  to a healthy child. But there were no traces of such emotions.

He asked, “Dad, tell me, are you not upset?”

His father again gave him the same answer, “I am happy that the child is healthy.” By that time his wife came with a mug of coffee in her hand.

She had heard the entire conversation.

 With happiness in her voice she told her son, “Son, you are very fortunate.  You have an extraordinary father, who is not angry even though he has lost a lot of money. You should  be proud that  your father  is happy thinking  somebody’s  child is  healthy,  rather  than  worrying  about his own big bonus. Learn from him. Help people without expecting anything in return.”


Friday, October 7, 2022

Words worth reading

 

Art of living

 The art of living successfully consists of being able to hold two opposite ideas in tension at the same time, first to make long term plans as if we were going to live forever; and second to conduct ourselves daily as if we were going to die tomorrow.

Sunday, October 2, 2022

LAW OF GARBAGE TRUCK

 Law of garbage truck

There is the law of garbage truck. Let us understand this by the following incident:

One passenger, got into a cab and as the cab was about to start another driver screeched out of the parking lot. 

This guy had to slam his brakes. 

It was obviously the other car’s fault. But that driver screamed at him, and this cabbie just waved blissfully and the car went off. 

The passenger was impressed. 

He asked the cabbie, “He screamed at you for his own mistake. Were you not disturbed by it?” 

The taxi driver said, “Sir, some people are like garbage trucks. They are full of so much of rubbish that they go around spilling upon others. What they spill is not about you, it’s about them.”

We have to learn to be indifferent to all of this.

We must stop being the garbage truck as it means, we have to carry load of rubbish things wherever we go. 

It will make the garden of our life stink instead of spreading scent of flowers.

Saturday, October 1, 2022

FOCUS ON YOURSELF

 

Focus on yourself

If we find our motivation from the praise of others, then their criticism can demotivate us. 

Let us try and be inwardly motivated. When we are inwardly motivated, then the effect of what people say will not be there upon us.

Once in a city, the people set up a race of frogs, the race was to jump all the way up a hill. 

It was a very steep hill, the people lined up and the frogs started off. 

But the people were saying, they will never do it. They just cannot do it. And one by one frogs started falling off. 

But one frog continued and continued despite all the criticism that he was receiving. 

Finally this frog reached the top. 

When the other frogs met to find out his secret, they found out that he was deaf. He had actually thought that they’re cheering him on.

People will always tell you all kinds of things.

Ignore them and only focus on yourself.

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